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How I Manifested My Twin Flame
Me!
Hi! I’m Kelly Ashley
Manifesting can be irritating and frustrating. It can make you angry and bitter and the king or queen of the pity committee… when you’re doing it wrong. I know this because I used to be the queen of mine. I spent 4 years trying everything possible to manifest my twin flame (a twin flame is the other energetic half of your soul and your GREATEST love). I tried all sorts of manifesting techniques: meditating, invoking, praying, shamelessly begging, and bargaining with the Universe. I tried clearing my ‘stuff’, burning soul mate candles, purifying my body, calling for him in my mind (I may have gotten a little crazy in the process), and using angel cards and psychics to tell me what I wanted to hear. They kept telling me that he was there waiting and that we’d be united someday.
It wasn’t too long before I was feeling seriously bitter. Someday wasn’t soon enough. Why wasn’t the Universe listening to me? Why was it refusing my happiness? What had I done to deserve this and why did nothing ever work out for me?! (and so, the first committee meeting began). I was angry. In fact, I was furious. Why did the Universe want me to suffer in this way? I couldn’t understand it at all. I couldn’t see that I was stuck in the vibration of being a VICTIM.
Break The Cycle
It wasn’t until I stopped trying to control the entire situation that my twin flame turned up in front of me. Honestly, it was like MAGIC. The moment I let it go, accepted that whatever will be will be and that I deserved good things, Jay showed up in my life. And the craziest thing about it was that I already knew him. I was so busy searching for my manifestation and controlling the way that he would arrive that I actually MISSED him entirely the first time around. Isn’t that crazy? The fixation blinded me. I let it go and within two weeks my twin flame was sitting right there in front of me. THAT’S the power of breaking the cycle!
But I also know how cliché that sounds. ‘Just let it go and your manifestation will come about.’ It’s not as simplistic as that. You need to decide that you’ll be OK whether your manifestation arrives or not. It’s in releasing the desperation and the stranglehold that we change the vibration we are sending out – controlling and forcing our will upon something that radiates fear, lack, and need – so what do you think the Universe will send your way?
You can’t possibly manifest a good and wonderful thing from that mindset because it is not a like vibration to fear, lack, and need. But, if you can choose to know that you DESERVE good things, that you will be just fine whether it turns up or not, and that you’re open to it turning up in whichever way is truly BEST for you (because the Universe knows that, you don’t) then, it will be magnetized to you irresistibly, simply because there is nothing negative to repel or obstruct its arrival. Voila!